My horror date left me stranded on the first meeting for the most outrageous reason – I even gave him gas money

My horror date left me stranded on the first meeting for the most outrageous reason – I even gave him gas money

THE dating world seems to be a lot messier and more complicated these days than it ever was before.

The expectations some people automatically have at the end of a date aren’t always the most appropriate.

A TikToker named Jai Purlan exposes her nightmare date with a toxic man by recording their interaction
A TikToker named Jai Purlan exposes her nightmare date with a toxic man by recording their interactionCredit: TikTok/jaipurlan

For a TikToker by the name of Jai Purlan, a first date that she agreed to go on with a new guy ended up taking a wrong turn pretty aggressively.

She recorded the last few minutes of the nightmare date to document proof of his outlandish behavior.

It turns out the man got angry when she told him she wasn’t comfortable going back to his place at the end of their time together.

He then revealed to her that he had no intention of driving her home if she didn’t want to come over.

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The video starts with him saying: “Are you going to get up and start walking?”

She responds by asking: “Why do I have to walk?”

He then says: “You live close enough to walk.”

She replies: “You drove me here. I don’t get why I’m walking. That doesn’t make sense to me.”

He dryly responds: “You don’t want to come back to my place so there’s no point in me wasting gas.”

She appears to slowly nod her head while absorbing the audacity of his words.

She then says: “I feel like I don’t want to go to your place because I don’t know you well enough. And it’s my first time meeting [you.] Does that not make sense to you?”

The video concludes with him saying: “We spent the whole day together. I’m obviously attracted to you. I don’t see what the issue is for you to come back to my place.”

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His sense of entitlement to make her come home with him (likely in an attempt to hook up with her) is extremely inappropriate.

Taking a woman on a date doesn’t mean a man has the right to assume she’ll go home with him after.

If a woman states that she’s not comfortable going home with a man, it isn’t OK for him to leave her stranded without a ride home either.

Some men in Jai’s comment section replied to the video saying that if he paid to take her out on a date and she wasn’t willing to hook up with him after, then he has every right to leave her stranded.

In the comment section of her video, she writes, “I paid for the date y’all. The way men jumped to conclusions is crazy.”

She also added: “I also gave him gas money before our date started. The proof is on my page. So yes I expected a ride home.”

Jai paid for the date and gave him gas money, but he still told her he wasn't driving her  home
Jai paid for the date and gave him gas money, but he still told her he wasn’t driving her homeCredit: TikTok/jaipurlan

Regardless of who paid for the date, the fact that the problematic man switched up his behavior in such a nasty way after learning she didn’t want to go to his place is the real issue.

The endless red flags from this toxic man were revealed within the short 44-second video she uploaded to TikTok.

Jai’s video doesn’t actually include his face, but some people think it should.

One user commented: “Girl, post him so everybody can know who not to talk to.”

Jai made sure the interaction was filmed so she'd be able to share what happened with others
Jai made sure the interaction was filmed so she’d be able to share what happened with othersCredit: TikTok/jaipurlan

Other people commented their utter disgust over the nightmarish situation.

One user wrote: “It’s the sheer audacity that he feels entitled to you coming home with him because he’s attracted to you.”

Someone else wrote: “You took an L by giving him gas and paying for the date, to begin with. Those were major red flags.”

Another user wrote: “I’m conflicted. He is wrong. He could have just taken you home. But… you don’t want to get in the car with a guy like that. Stay safe.”

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Fortunately for Jai, she obviously dodged a major bullet here.

The men in Jai’s comment section who are agreeing with the inappropriate behavior of her date have revealed their red flags also.

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