DEAR DEIDRE: A girl on my course sends me sexy pictures and messages, but then says it’s only banter.
I’m attracted to her but I’m not sure if she’s just messing me around.
I’m 20 and she’s 21. We’re at university together.
We’ve always got on well. A few weeks ago, she got drunk and started sending flirty texts.
The next day, she said it didn’t mean anything. But she has since done it again.
She has even sent topless pics and asked me to pleasure myself while we chatted.
Afterwards, she said she felt guilty for leading me on. It’s driving me crazy. What do I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Perhaps she doesn’t know what she wants, or is scared of getting involved.
Maybe you need to tell her how you feel and ask her to be honest. If she isn’t interested, at least you’ll know where you stand.
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